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Life be Like That Sometimes
A blog post collection of how can just simply be like that sometimes! Follow along and let me know if you can relate as well!


The Unbreakable Bond: Celebrating Cats, Black Cat Magic, and the Heavy Price of Love
There is a unique quiet that fills a home when a pet passes away. It’s in the empty corner where the food bowl used to sit, the absence of soft paws trotting down the hallway, and the sudden, heavy silence of a room that once echoed with a few MEOWs or a gentle, steady purr. Pets have an uncanny way of tricking us into thinking they’ll be around forever. We bring them into our lives expecting a companion, but what they actually end up doing is reshaping our daily rhythms, gro
tg-phelan
Aug 33 min read


The House Always Wins (Unless the House Is You)
Every January 1st, humanity collectively engages in a delusion of grandeur known as the New Year’s Resolution. We buy $200 running shoes, sign up for apps that track our deep sleep, and declare to anyone who will listen that this is our year. Usually, the statistical reality hits by mid-February. Studies show that an astounding 80% to 88% of resolutions fail before the year is out. Why? Because people resolve to "eat less kale" or "finally organize the Tupperware drawer"—goal
tg-phelan
Jul 203 min read


The Hometown Time Machine (And Why Your Roots Matter, Even the Gnarled Ones)
I recently did something most people would likely advise against doing without a certified spiritual guide: I drove through my hometown. It wasn't a planned pilgrimage; I just found myself cutting through those familiar, slightly faded streets on the way back from a road trip. Instantly, my brain’s hard drive flooded. If you haven't done this lately, it's a wild ride. One minute you’re passing the convenience store where you bought your weight in sour candy, and the next you’
tg-phelan
Jun 13 min read


The Procrastinator's Playbook: Where Good Intentions Go to Die (and I Go to Binge-Watch Bar Rescue)
Ah, procrastination. My oldest, most reliable friend. We've been through a lot, haven't we? From those ambitious high school projects that somehow always ended up being completed at 3 AM the day they were due, to the countless "I'll start tomorrow" declarations that have paved the road to... well, exactly where I am now: contemplating writing this blog post instead of actually, you know, doing the thing I'm supposed to be doing. You see, I'm a connoisseur of "best laid plans
tg-phelan
Nov 24, 20252 min read
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